Yes, I am not sizing up someone's attractiveness when they approach me on the street, I am sizing up their threat level. If I meet someone in a calmer, safer environment, then I might think about how attractive they are. Read more
Also, catcalling is NOT a big city issue. You can get cat called in a small town. Read more
Obviously the logical next step in this debate is to tell women to carry guns and not live in cities, not to tell men to stop yelling shit at women, even though the latter is SO much easier than the former. Men: Don't change your behavior even if you don't lose much and it's easy to. Women: Change your behavior in… Read more
SWEET GOD I DID NOT KNOW THAT. Read more
Disclaimer: I don't get catcalled, like, it's hardly ever happened in my life. I suspect it's a cultural/regional thing. And when I have been catcalled, it's usually been "Ugly bitch" as opposed to "Heyyy sexxy", etc. Read more
I just need to say this: his website, which I'm sure you've already seen Kara, is called bad.boys.finish.first*. Like, come the fuck on. Really dude? Read more
"No one is forcing you to live in NYC." Read more
I HATE THIS FORMAT. CNN is terrible for even setting this up as an arguable topic. Particularly terrible is hearing one side representing by a man who'll never experience this. I'd like to defer to John Oliver's climate change representation on this issue. Read more
hot take: fuck this guy Read more
"Well, he screamed something explicit at me on the sidewalk and I was so touched and turned on that I doubled back to talk to him and now we're a couple" said no woman ever in the history of human beings. Read more
THIS! I love when my boyfriend says I'm pretty. When strangers say it I assume they want to remove my skin and wear my face. Read more
I Don't Notice What You Look Like Because You Scare Me When You Catcall! Read more
I like how he tells her that he's a guy and knows how guys think, and then goes on to tell us all what we think. Because we're one giant hive-mind; we all depend on compliments from handsome men for our self esteem, and none of us are homo/bi/asexual. None of us are unavailable. None of us derive our self-worth from… Read more
Except that the moment even the hottest guy on earth catcalls some woman he doesn't know, he immediately becomes unattractive. How on earth is a hot guy supposed to meet women? Conundrum! Read more
Prince was awesome, but why did he only do one (albeit long and very good) number? Read more